These two issues have troubled many because they go through it
but finds it difficult to talk about it and the worse aspect is that
they have no one to talk to.
Your lucky day is today...let me throw some light on the two
issues.
SQUIRTING
It is the expulsion of fluid by the paraurethral duct through and
around the female urethra during or before an orgasm. It is also
known colloquially as squirting or gushing. The quantity of fluid
differ from person to person.
From my years of experience as a counsellor, I have come to a
realisation that most ladies who experience the squirt do not
understand or know what it is or why it happened especially when
it happens for the first time.
Some ladies have stopped having sex because of squirting, some
feel trapped in their relationship because they feel their partner
have come to accept them for their squirting but if they move on,
the next guy may not except them and may find it disgusting.
Almost all those who go through squirting feel ashamed of the
situation to the extent of avoiding sex due to guilt or shame.
Some even feel it is urine which increases their shame. If this is
not handled well it can psychologically affect them even in
marriage or their sex life.
I will therefore like to make it clear that squirting is not a sickness,
it is not shameful but a natural ejection of fluid before or during
orgasm. The only thing is that a lot of people are not aware of
this and for many who know have not experienced it before so it
may look strange to them for the first time. Squirting is one of
the magical moments during sexual intercourse and the feeling is
like having a military parade or Nokia 3310 on vibration in your
vagina.
Squirting should not be a reason to stay OUT of or IN a
relationship. This should not bring down your self-esteem and
prevent you from expressing your sexuality. After all men also
eject fluid from the penis before and during orgasm.
NB: We can talk privately if you want to experience squirting or
make your partner squirt.
WHEN SEMEN COMES OUT OF THE VAGINA
For some people, when they have sexual intercourse, the ''semen''
comes out of the vagina. A lot of people find it worrying
especially when they are trying to make babies.
Some people are told to lift their legs in the air for a while to
prevent the ''semen'' from coming out.
First of all I must say that it is NORMAL. It doesn't mean there is
something wrong with you or there is something wrong with the
vagina. You must remember that it takes only ONE sperm to
fertilize the egg.
The sperms in an ejaculation is about just 5% while the other 95%
is fluid which helps sperms to swim.
Usually males who produce MORE semen than the vagina need,
some comes out after intercourse. This is normal.
This means that you don't need to throw up your legs after sex
and remember that you can still get pregnant even if the fluid
comes out.
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